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Tea, a beverage enjoyed by individuals of all cultures across the globe, holds a longstanding history that dates back thousands of years. From its origins in ancient China to its widespread popularity today, tea has established itself as a versatile and beloved elixir. Join me as we delve into the rich world of tea, exploring its diverse flavors, health benefits, and cultural significance.

1. The Origins of Tea:

Tea's story begins in ancient China, where legend has it that Emperor Shen Nung discovered this soothing brew accidentally. Today, tea plantations span across various countries, including India, Sri Lanka, Japan, and Kenya, showcasing the versatility of this invigorating and calming beverage.

2. Journey Through Tea Varieties:

a) Black Tea: Known for its bold flavor and dark color, black tea undergoes oxidation, resulting in a robust taste profile. Assam, Darjeeling, and Earl Grey are just a few popular black tea varieties cherished worldwide.

b) Green Tea: Celebrated for its refreshing and vegetal taste, green tea is praised for its abundance of antioxidants. From matcha to jasmine tea, this variety presents a range of flavors and health benefits.

c) Herbal Tea: While not technically tea, herbal infusions offer an extraordinary array of flavors and therapeutic properties. Chamomile, peppermint, and rooibos are just a few examples of flavorful herbal teas that provide relaxation and wellness.

d) Oolong Tea: With its unique blend of qualities from black and green teas, oolong tea offers a medium-bodied taste that can be floral, fruity, or even toasty. Taiwanese and Chinese oolongs are highly revered for their complexity.

3. Health Benefits of Tea:

Tea's therapeutic properties have been studied extensively, and the results are promising. Regular tea consumption is thought to improve heart health, boost metabolism, support weight loss, enhance cognitive function, fortify the immune system, and promote overall well-being. The presence of antioxidants, polyphenols, and catechins in tea makes it a remarkable beverage with an impact on our physical and mental health.

4. Tea Ceremonies and Cultural Significance:

Tea has transcended its humble origins to become an integral part of the cultural traditions of numerous countries. From the elaborate Japanese tea ceremonies rooted in Zen Buddhism to the British tea culture steeped in afternoon rituals, these customs exemplify the reverence and respect for the art of tea. These ceremonies highlight the importance of slowing down, savoring the moment, and embracing the meditative qualities tea can bring.

5. Interesting facts about tea

1. Tea is the second most consumed beverage in the world, after water.

2. Tea originated in China over 5,000 years ago.

3. The four main types of tea are black, green, oolong, and white tea.

4. Black tea is the most oxidized tea, while white tea is the least oxidized.

5. Green tea is known for its high antioxidant content and potential health benefits.

6. Oolong tea is partially oxidized and has characteristics of both black and green teas.

7. White tea is made from the youngest leaves and buds of the tea plant.

8. Herbal teas are not true teas as they are not made from the Camellia sinensis plant.

9. Earl Grey tea is flavored with the oil of bergamot, a type of citrus fruit.

10. Matcha tea is a powdered green tea used in Japanese tea ceremonies.

11. The British are known for their love of tea and have a tradition of afternoon tea.

12. India is the largest consumer of tea in the world.

13. Tea bags were invented in the early 20th century as a convenient way to brew tea.

14. The Boston Tea Party in 1773 was a protest against British taxation on tea.

15. The teapot was invented in China during the Yuan Dynasty.

16. The teabag was patented in the United States in 1903.

17. The longest recorded tea bag measured 65.5 meters and was made in Sri Lanka.

18. Tea contains caffeine, although in smaller amounts compared to coffee.

19. Rooibos tea is a herbal tea from South Africa that is naturally caffeine-free.

20. The ritual of afternoon tea, including sandwiches, scones, and cakes, was popularized in Britain by Anna, the Duchess of Bedford.

21. In Japan, tea ceremonies are a traditional and highly choreographed art form.

22. Bubble tea, also known as boba tea, originated in Taiwan in the 1980s and became popular worldwide.

23. The tea plant, Camellia sinensis, can grow up to 9 meters in height if left untended.

24. The United States has an annual celebration called National Iced Tea Day, which falls on June 10th.

25. The term "chai" actually means "tea" in many languages, so the phrase "chai tea" is redundant.

26. Some cultures believe that tea has various health benefits, including boosting metabolism and aiding digestion.

27. Peppermint tea is often used as a natural remedy for soothing an upset stomach.

28. In many Asian cultures, serving tea to guests is considered a gesture of hospitality and respect.

29. In 2019, a rare Chinese tea called Da Hong Pao was sold for over $1 million at an auction.

30. Tea leaves can be used for more than just brewing tea – they can be used for cooking, baking, and even making beauty products like facial masks.

6. Tea recipes

1. Chai Tea Latte:

- Ingredients:

  - 1 cup water

  - 2 black tea bags

  - 1 cup milk (any type)

  - 1 cinnamon stick

  - 4 cloves

  - 2 cardamom pods

  - 1/4 teaspoon ground ginger

  - 2 tablespoons honey or sugar (optional)


- Instructions:

  1. In a saucepan, bring water to a boil.

  2. Add the tea bags, cinnamon stick, cloves, cardamom pods, and ginger.

  3. Reduce heat and simmer for 5-7 minutes.

  4. Add the milk and sugar (if desired), and continue simmering for another 2-3 minutes.

  5. Remove from heat, strain the tea into mugs, and serve hot.


2. Iced Lemon Mint Green Tea:

- Ingredients:

  - 2 cups water

  - 2 green tea bags

  - 1 lemon, juiced

  - Fresh mint leaves

  - 2 tablespoons honey or sugar (optional)

  - Ice cubes


- Instructions:

  1. In a small saucepan, bring water to a boil.

  2. Add the green tea bags and steep for 3-5 minutes.

  3. Remove the tea bags and let the tea cool.

  4. Add lemon juice, fresh mint leaves, and honey/sugar (if desired).

  5. Stir well and refrigerate for at least 1 hour.

  6. Serve over ice cubes and garnish with mint leaves.


3. Spiced Apple Cider Tea:

- Ingredients:

  - 2 cups apple juice

  - 1 cup water

  - 2 black tea bags

  - 2 cinnamon sticks

  - 4 whole cloves

  - 1 teaspoon honey or sugar (optional)

  - Slices of apple (for garnish)


- Instructions:

  1. In a saucepan, combine apple juice, water, cinnamon sticks, and cloves.

  2. Bring to a simmer and let it cook for 10 minutes.

  3. Add the tea bags and let them steep for 3-5 minutes.

  4. Remove the tea bags and spices, and stir in honey/sugar (if desired).

  5. Serve hot and garnish with apple slices.


4. Hibiscus Ginger Iced Tea:

- Ingredients:

  - 4 cups water

  - 4 hibiscus tea bags

  - 2 tablespoons grated ginger

  - 1 tablespoon honey or sugar (optional)

  - Lemon slices (optional)

  - Fresh mint leaves (optional)


- Instructions:

  1. Bring water to a boil in a saucepan.

  2. Add hibiscus tea bags and grated ginger, and let it steep for 10-15 minutes.

  3. Remove the tea bags and ginger, and stir in honey/sugar (if desired).

  4. Let the tea cool and refrigerate for at least 1 hour.

  5. Serve over ice cubes and garnish with lemon slices or fresh mint leaves.


5. Moroccan Mint Tea:

- Ingredients:

  - 4 cups water

  - 4 green tea bags

  - 1 bunch fresh mint leaves

  - 2 tablespoons sugar (optional)


- Instructions:

  1. Heat the water in a saucepan until it reaches a simmer.

  2. Remove from heat and add the green tea bags and mint leaves.

  3. Let it steep for 3-5 minutes.

  4. Remove the tea bags and strain the tea to remove the mint leaves.

  5. Stir in sugar (if desired) and serve hot.


Tea, the timeless elixir, has captivated our taste buds and hearts for centuries. As we explore its rich history, diverse flavors, and numerous health benefits, it's clear that tea continues to hold a special place in our lives. Whether enjoyed hot or cold, alone or in the company of loved ones, tea invites us to pause, reflect, and embark on a journey that soothes the body, mind, and soul.

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Best cooperative board games
 

There are many things to keep you entertained at home. Let it be something educational like reading a book or something relaxing and meaningless like sitting on a sofa watching a TV. If you've tried everything from the mentioned above, but are still bored and looking for fun activities to do, there's still something you can consider. Board games! 

When it comes to playing board games, I prefer the following: brief instructions, few components, clear mechanics and most importantly, little to no competitiveness. That might seem a bit off, but enjoy cooperative games more than those requiring people to fight against each other. The more competitive they are, the more likely you are to stop being friends or end up in a divorce. I warned you. 

What is a cooperative (or co-op) game? 

Players work together to develop a strategy and plan actions/moves in order to reach a certain goal and win the game. In the end of the game, players either both win or lose. 

What are the best cooperative board games? 

Well, it differs from person to person. It majorly depends on whether you're planning to play with a group of friends or family, whether you will have children in a team, and what types of board games you like the most. One thing I know for sure you will find something from the list below. Make sure to check out the expansions and other editions as well.

Pandemic Legacy Season 1 

1. Pandemic Legacy: Season 1 (2015)


Players: 2-4
Time to play: 60 min
Age: 13+

Gameplay

Campaign game, in which players travel around the world to treat diseases and discover cures. Each player has a specific role, which will give special abilities to the player. The team will experience events such as outbreaks and epidemics, and will have objectives to achieve throughout the game. The game starts similarly to the classic original Pandemic board game, but progresses differently.

Expansions and other editions

Pandemic 
Pandemic: On the Brink 
Pandemic: In the Lab 
Pandemic: State of Emergency 
Pandemic Legacy: Season 2 
Pandemic: Contagion 
Pandemic: The Cure 
Pandemic: The Cure - Experimental Meds 
Pandemic: Iberia 
Pandemic: Reign of Cthulhu 
Pandemic: Rising Tide 
Pandemic: Fall of Rome 
Pandemic: Rapid Response 

Pros 
  • Different player roles and game progression allow you to develop new strategies every time you play the game and not feel like the game is getting repetitive.
  • Straightforward rules and easy set-up 
  • You can control the difficulty of the game 
  • Very interesting theme of the game 
Cons 
  • Some roles are objectively better than others, because of the advantages they give.
Gloomhaven Board game review 

2. Gloomhaven (2017)

Players: 1-4 
Time to play: 60-120 min 
Age: 12+

Gameplay 

It is a fantasy-themed campaign driven game, in which each player is assigned a unique role. Players have control over how the story continues through enhancing their abilities, fighting monsters and discovering new locations. 

Expansions and other editions 

Gloomhaven: Forgotten Circles 
Gloomhaven: Jaws of the Lion 
Frosthaven 

Pros
  • 95 unique playable scenarios
Cons
  • Pricey
Aeon's End War Eternal board game

3. Aeon's End: War Eternal (2017)

Players: 1-4
Time to play: 60 min
Age: 14+

Gameplay

It is a deck building game where players aim for defending Gravehold from enemies using special abilities and spells.

Expansions and other editions

Aeon's End
Aeron's End: The New Age
Aeon's End: The Void
Aeon's End: The Outer Dark
Aeon's End: Buried Secrets

Pros
  • The game is fully compatible with the original game: Aeron's End. They are both stand-alone games, but combining both makes things more interesting and complex.
  • The game is highly replayable
  • Easy to adjust the difficulty of the game
Cons
  • The mechanics and combinations are slightly more difficult compared to the Aeron's End game. If you prefer something simpler, go for the original game instead.
  • Due to random card flips, the game can quickly make matters a lot worse during the gameplay
Too many bones board game

4. Too many bones (2017)

Players: 1-4
Time to play: 60-120 min
Age: 12+

Gameplay

A fantasy-themed game, where the story progression is based on rolling the dice and strategic decision-making. Throughout the game players must fight the enemies to reach the final destination.

Expansions and other editions

Too many bones: Undertow
Too many bones: Nugget
Too many bones: Ghillie
Too many bones: Tink
Too many bones: Gasket
Too many bones: 40 Days of Daelore
Too many bones: Age of Tyranny
Too many bones: Splice & Dice
Too many bones: Lab Rats
Too many bones: Dart

Pros
  • A huge variety of scenarios. 
  • Expansions bring a lot to the game.
Cons
  • Once you figure out how to defeat certain enemies, they won't be much of a challenge next time.
Mansions of Madness: Second Edition board game

5. Mansions of Madness: Second Edition (2016)

Players: 1-5
Time to play: 120-180 mins
Age: 14+

Gameplay

This is a horror- and mystery-themed app-assisted game inspired by Lovecraftian world, where players investigate streets and mansions, solve complex puzzles and reveal the truth behind mysteries.

Expansions and other editions

Beyond the threshold
Streets of Arkham
Sanctum of Twilight
Horrific Journeys
Path of the Serpent

Pros
  • Frightening atmosphere!
Cons
  • It's only for people who love randomness in games. Game progress can go downhill if you're unlucky enough to, for example, draw a bad set of cards a few times in a row.
Arkham Horror: The Card Game board game review

6. Arkham Horror: The Card Game (2016)

Players: 1-4
Time to play: 60-120 min
Age: 14+

Gameplay

A card game that gives you the experience of being an investigator in the Lovecraftian world. You solve the mysteries while meeting and battling evil creatures.

Expansions and other editions

Dunwich Legacy
The Path to Carcosa
The Forgotten Age
The Circle Undone
The dream-Eaters
The Innsmouth Conspiracy (upcoming)

Pros
  • This is a living card game. The publishers keep releasing new content for the game, such as new playing cards and scenarios.
Cons
  • Takes quite some time to set up
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free coursera courses with free certificates


Right now we all aren't at our best in terms of emotional well-being. In order to make you feel better, I decided to share the list of Coursera courses that are free until the 31st of May. You can also get a certificate upon the course completion free of charge. So be quick! There are multiple course categories: Science, Computer Science, Health, Personal Development, Languages, Business, and Other. Make sure to follow the 5 steps described below! And most importantly, have fun learning new things!



All course titles are clickable! Afterwards, follow the steps below:



1. Make sure there is a Coursera Together banner on top of the page. If you don't see it, refresh the page.

2. Click Enroll now

3. Click Purchase course

4. Go to the checkout. The discount will be applied automatically. You don't need to enter any payment details.

5. Click Pay and enjoy the free course.


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How Things Work: An Introduction to Physics

University of Virginia

Rating: 4.8



Chemistry

University of Kentucky

Rating: 4.7



Computer Architecture

Princeton University

Rating: 4.8



Introduction to Chemistry: Structures and Solutions

Duke University

Rating: 4.7



Introduction to Chemistry: Reactions and Ratios

Duke University

Rating: 4.8



Astronomy: Exploring Time and Space

The University of Arizona

Rating: 4.8



Introduction to Sustainability

University of Illinois

Rating: 4.8



The Science of the Solar System

Caltech

Rating: 4.9



Mechanics of Materials I: Fundamentals of Stress & Strain and Axial Loading

Georgia Institute of Technology

Rating: 4.8



Fundamentals of Engineering Exam Review

Georgia Institute of Technology

Rating: 4.7



Mountains 101

University of Alberta

Rating: 4.9



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Computer Science: Algorithms, Theory, and Machines

Princeton University

Rating: 4.8



Computer Science: Programming with a Purpose

Princeton University

Rating: 4.8



Build Your First Android App (Project- Centered Course)

CentraleSupélec

Rating: 4.3



Introduction to Programming with MATLAB

Vanderbilt University

Rating: 4.8



C++ Programming for C Programmers, Part A

University of California, Santa Cruz

Rating: 4.4



Algorithms Part I

Princeton University

Rating: 4.9



Algorithms Part II

Princeton University

Rating: 5.0



Analysis of Algorithms

Princeton University

Rating: 4.7



Industrial IoT on Google Cloud Platform

Google Cloud

Rating: 4.6



Google Cloud Platform Fundamentals for AWS Professionals

Google Cloud

Rating: 4.6



Introduction to TCP/IP

Yonsei University

Rating: 4.5



Cloud Computing Basics (Cloud 101)

LearnQuest

Rating: 4.5



Developing AI Applications on Azure

LearnQuest

Rating: 4.4



Getting Started with AWS Machine Learning

Amazon Web Services

Rating: 4.3















Psychological First Aid

Johns Hopkins University

Rating: 4.8



A Life of Happiness and Fulfillment

Indian School of Business

Rating: 4.8



Introductory Human Physiology

Duke University

Rating: 4.7



Global Health: An Interdisciplinary Overview

University of Geneva

Rating: 4.6



Epidemiology: The Basic Science of Public Health

The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill

Rating: 4.6



Epidemics, Pandemics and Outbreaks

University of Pittsburgh

Rating: 4.6



The Challenges of Global Health

Duke University

Rating: 4.8



Ecology: Ecosystem Dynamics and Conservation

American Museum of Natural History

Howard Hughes Medical Institute

Rating: 4.8



Essentials of Global Health

Yale University

Rating: 4.8



Disaster Preparedness

University of Pittsburgh

Rating: 4.7



Communicating During Global Emergencies

Emory University

Rating: 4.6



Infection Prevention in Nursing Homes
The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill

Rating: 4.8



Disease Clusters

Johns Hopkins University

Rating: 4.7





De- Mystifying Mindfulness

Universiteit Leiden

Rating: 4.8



Healing with the Arts

University of Florida

Rating: 4.6



Mindshift: Break Through Obstacles to Learning and Discover Your Hidden Potential

McMaster University

Rating: 4.8



Think Again I: How to Understand Arguments

Duke University

Rating: 4.7



Introduction to Personal Branding

University of Virginia

Rating: 4.3



The Arts and Science of Relationships: Understanding Human Needs

University of Toronto

Rating: 4.4



Creative Problem Solving

University of Minnesota

Rating: 4.1



Sit Less, Get Active

University of Edinburgh

Rating: 4.5



Successful Career Development

University System of Georgia

Rating: 4.5



Exploring Emerging Technologies for Lifelong Learning and Success

The State University of New York

University of Buffalo/ Binghamton University

Rating: 4.5



Creative Thinking: Techniques and Tools for Success

Imperial College London

Rating: 4.5



How to Write a Resume (Project- Centered Course)

The State University of New York

Rating: 4.4



How to Get Skilled: Introduction to Individual Skills Management (Project- Centered Course)

The State University of New York

Rating: 4.4



Converting Challenges into Opportunities

University of California San Diego

Rating: 4.4






First Step Korean
Yonsei University

Rating: 4.8



Tricky American Pronounciation
University of California, Irvine

Rating: 4.7



Writing in English at University

Lund University

Rating: 4.8



Chinese for Beginners

Peking University

Rating: 4.7








New Models of Business in Society

University of Virginia

Rating: 4.6



Teamwork Skills: Communicating Effectively in Groups

University of Colorado Boulder

Rating: 4.8



Personal & Family Financial Planning

University of Florida

Rating: 4.6



Managing the Company of the Future

University of London

London Business School

Rating: 4.8



Becoming a Changemaker: Introduction to Social Innovation

University of Cape Town

Rating: 4.8



Communication Strategies for a Virtual Age

University of Toronto

Rating: 4.7






U101: Understanding College and College Life

University of Washington

Rating: 4.6



How to Write and Publish a Scientific Paper (Project- Centered Project)

École Polytechnique

Rating: 4.3



Probability and Statistics: To p or not to p?

University of London

Rating: 4.5



Guitar for Beginners

Berklee College of Music

Rating: 4.8



Introduction to Philosophy
The University of Edinburgh

Rating: 4.6



Big History: Connecting Knowledge
Macquarie University

Rating: 4.8



Making Architecture

IE Business School

IE School of Architecture and Design

Rating: 4.7



Getting Started with Music Theory

Michigan State University

Rating: 4.5
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I am always up for both reading the classics and recent books. Moreover, selecting a book to read is a lengthy and enjoyable process for me. I inevitably end up with dozens of written down titles. I don't end up reading all of them though, because I might just not be in the mood to read a specific book at a certain time. But they're patiently waiting for their moment.

Let's now talk about the upcoming releases. Because you can become one of the first readers and brag about it and form your own unbiased opinion afterwards. When it comes to the bestsellers that everyone has already read, you kind of set your expectations way too high. And when it doesn't live up to the hype, you feel pretty much disappointed.

Therefore, I've picked the best new book releases in spring for you. These are the books I'm personally interested in or the books I know someone like will enjoy. There's no specific genre or theme. That's also how my personal book collection looks like. Diverse. I hope you enjoy!

Untamed 

by Glennon Doyle


This is how you find yourself.

There is a voice of longing inside each woman. We strive so mightily to be good: good partners, daughters, mothers, employees, and friends. We hope all this striving will make us feel alive. Instead, it leaves us feeling weary, stuck, overwhelmed, and underwhelmed. We look at our lives and wonder: Wasn’t it all supposed to be more beautiful than this? We quickly silence that question, telling ourselves to be grateful, hiding our discontent—even from ourselves.

For many years, Glennon Doyle denied her own discontent. Then, while speaking at a conference, she looked at a woman across the room and fell instantly in love. Three words flooded her mind: There She Is. At first, Glennon assumed these words came to her from on high. But she soon realized they had come to her from within. This was her own voice—the one she had buried beneath decades of numbing addictions, cultural conditioning, and institutional allegiances. This was the voice of the girl she had been before the world told her who to be. Glennon decided to quit abandoning herself and to instead abandon the world’s expectations of her. She quit being good so she could be free. She quit pleasing and started living.

Soulful and uproarious, forceful and tender, Untamed is both an intimate memoir and a galvanizing wake-up call. It is the story of how one woman learned that a responsible mother is not one who slowly dies for her children, but one who shows them how to fully live. It is the story of navigating divorce, forming a new blended family, and discovering that the brokenness or wholeness of a family depends not on its structure but on each member’s ability to bring her full self to the table. And it is the story of how each of us can begin to trust ourselves enough to set boundaries, make peace with our bodies, honor our anger and heartbreak, and unleash our truest, wildest instincts so that we become women who can finally look at ourselves and say: There She Is.

Untamed shows us how to be brave. As Glennon insists: The braver we are, the luckier we get.

On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness (The Wingfeather Saga) 

by Andrew Peterson


Janner Igiby, his brother, Tink, and their disabled sister, Leeli, are gifted children as all children are, loved well by a noble mother and ex-pirate grandfather. But they will need all their gifts and all that they love to survive the evil pursuit of the venomous Fangs of Dang, who have crossed the dark sea to rule the land with malice. The Igibys hold the secret to the lost legend and jewels of good King Wingfeather of the Shining Isle of Anniera.


From Blood and Ash 

by Jennifer L. Armentrout


A Maiden…

Chosen from birth to usher in a new era, Poppy’s life has never been her own. The life of the Maiden is solitary. Never to be touched. Never to be looked upon. Never to be spoken to. Never to experience pleasure. Waiting for the day of her Ascension, she would rather be with the guards, fighting back the evil that took her family, than preparing to be found worthy by the gods. But the choice has never been hers.

A Duty…

The entire kingdom’s future rests on Poppy’s shoulders, something she’s not even quite sure she wants for herself. Because a Maiden has a heart. And a soul. And longing. And when Hawke, a golden-eyed guard honor bound to ensure her Ascension, enters her life, destiny and duty become tangled with desire and need. He incites her anger, makes her question everything she believes in, and tempts her with the forbidden.

A Kingdom…

Forsaken by the gods and feared by mortals, a fallen kingdom is rising once more, determined to take back what they believe is theirs through violence and vengeance. And as the shadow of those cursed draws closer, the line between what is forbidden and what is right becomes blurred. Poppy is not only on the verge of losing her heart and being found unworthy by the gods, but also her life when every blood-soaked thread that holds her world together begins to unravel.


Valentine: a Novel 

by Elizabeth Wetmore


Written with the haunting emotional power of Elizabeth Strout and Barbara Kingsolver, an astonishing debut novel that explores the lingering effects of a brutal crime on the women of one small Texas oil town in the 1970s.

Mercy is hard in a place like this . . .

It’s February 1976, and Odessa, Texas, stands on the cusp of the next great oil boom. While the town’s men embrace the coming prosperity, its women intimately know and fear the violence that always seems to follow.

In the early hours of the morning after Valentine’s Day, fourteen-year-old Gloria Ramírez appears on the front porch of Mary Rose Whitehead’s ranch house, broken and barely alive. The teenager had been viciously attacked in a nearby oil field—an act of brutality that is tried in the churches and barrooms of Odessa before it can reach a court of law. When justice is evasive, the stage is set for a showdown with potentially devastating consequences.

Valentine is a haunting exploration of the intersections of violence and race, class and region in a story that plumbs the depths of darkness and fear, yet offers a window into beauty and hope. Told through the alternating points of view of indelible characters who burrow deep in the reader’s heart, this fierce, unflinching, and surprisingly tender novel illuminates women’s strength and vulnerability, and reminds us that it is the stories we tell ourselves that keep us alive.


The Mirror & the Light (Wolf Hall Trilogy) 

by Hilary Mantel


With The Mirror & the Light, Hilary Mantel brings to a triumphant close the trilogy she began with her peerless, Booker Prize-winning novels, Wolf Hall and Bring Up the Bodies. She traces the final years of Thomas Cromwell, the boy from nowhere who climbs to the heights of power, offering a defining portrait of predator and prey, of a ferocious contest between present and past, between royal will and a common man’s vision: of a modern nation making itself through conflict, passion and courage.

The story begins in May 1536: Anne Boleyn is dead, decapitated in the space of a heartbeat by a hired French executioner. As her remains are bundled into oblivion, Cromwell breakfasts with the victors. The blacksmith’s son from Putney emerges from the spring’s bloodbath to continue his climb to power and wealth, while his formidable master, Henry VIII, settles to short-lived happiness with his third queen, Jane Seymour.

Cromwell, a man with only his wits to rely on, has no great family to back him, no private army. Despite rebellion at home, traitors plotting abroad and the threat of invasion testing Henry’s regime to the breaking point, Cromwell’s robust imagination sees a new country in the mirror of the future. All of England lies at his feet, ripe for innovation and religious reform. But as fortune’s wheel turns, Cromwell’s enemies are gathering in the shadows. The inevitable question remains: how long can anyone survive under Henry’s cruel and capricious gaze?

Eagerly awaited and eight years in the making, The Mirror & the Light completes Cromwell’s journey from self-made man to one of the most feared, influential figures of his time. Portrayed by Mantel with pathos and terrific energy, Cromwell is as complex as he is unforgettable: a politician and a fixer, a husband and a father, a man who both defied and defined his age.
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1. The Anxiety Solution: A Quieter Mind, a Calmer You


A therapist Chloe Brotheridge discusses anxiety in everyday life, talks about where it comes from, and provides practical tools to overcome it.

"Worry is designed to help us be on high alert for the worst-case scenario but when it becomes a more or less permanent state of mind, it can profoundly damage our mental health"

☹ Is written for a female audience

2. Cognitive Therapy of Anxiety Disorders: Science and Practice.The Anxiety Solution: A Quieter Mind, a Calmer You


The authors synthesize the scientific data to develop a step-by-step guidance to assessment and treatment of the most common anxiety disorders: panic disorder, social phobia, generalized anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder and posttraumatic stress disorder.

"Serotonin acts as a neurochemical break on behavior, with blockage of serotonin receptors in humans associated with anxiety."

☹ Not as easy read, is primarily aimed at professionals 

3. The Man Who Couldn't Stop


The author has suffered with obsessive-compulsive disorder for over twenty years. The book explains many things from history and research, and shares his experience in a humorous way.

"That helps to explain why people with OCD perform the same checks, again and again. We see the one in a million event and not the nine hundred and ninety-nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine non-events that we should do."

☹ Is not a self-help book

4. Calming Your Anxious Mind: How Mindfulness and Compassion Can Free You from Anxiety, Fear, and Panic


The authors teach you about the underlying mechanisms of anxiety and guide you through a healing journey that uses mindfulness and compassion as the main tools.

"Because fear and anxiety happen in the present moment, it is vital that you learn to establish yourself - and remain - in the present moment in order to manage them."

☹ Is only for people who like or wish to try meditation and discover mindfulness

5. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple: 10 Strategies for Managing Anxiety, Anger, Panic, and Worry


The author is a licensed psychologist. The book gives a highly accessible information about the essence of cognitive behavioral therapy, provides strategies on how to apply it and helps you track your progress.

"CBT breaks down big challenges into smaller, more manageable pieces. An overwhelming feeling of depression, for example, can be broken down into a collection of more manageable thoughts, feelings, and behaviors."

☹ In severe cases is complementary to psychotherapy, not a substitute













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Hello, my friends. I want you to have the greatest Christmas season, so I decided to share my FREE printables for Christmas holidays. 

The bundle includes:
  • Mental Health Advent Calendar
  • A postcard to Santa & a simple postcard
  • A poster
  • Recipe card for Christmas Cookies & more

The instructions are simple:
  • Click the image to enlarge. Right click -> Save image as...
  • There are no specific dates, so you can choose when and what you want to do. Because that's not something we want to stress about.
  • Get creative! You'll need a little bit of research on how to do certain things.
  • Have fun!!!








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We all have them, we all suffer from them, but we don't let them go. Because there's something very significant they provide- comfort and a feeling of security. But here's the truth. First, your body can live perfectly well without those bad habits and addictions. It's a matter of time till the physical cravings subside majorly. There may be a specific reason you engaged in that bad habit or you just learned it from your parents. As a matter of fact, there were times this wasn't the case. Second, while the bad habits are meant to relieve stress, they actually cause even more distress. That's why they're called bad. They cause harm and take away many good opportunities.

Having a strong desire to get rid of my bad habits, I went through dozens of guides that promised overnight results in just a few steps. But most of them bore a little relationship with reality. I strongly believe that everything from setting a quitting day on Monday to reading motivational books doesn't work for more than a few days. For the most part, it's the psychological bond that holds us back from quitting. And that bond is different for each individual. Further I talk about what worked for me and other people, but remember that I do only half of the job, and you must do the rest. You will need to answer a few questions for yourself and make personal adjustments throughout the process. Please note that in case of severe problems, consult a medical professional first, and you may use this guide complimentary to the main treatment.


Reflection

Questions to answer:
What harm does my bad habit/addiction cause?
How much of my time does it take?
Is this actually a bad habit?

First of all, let's identify your starting point. This step is necessary, because depending on the severity of your problem you might need to seek professional help. Additionally, think of the negative impact of your current behavior on your mental and physical health, and your future. I am by no means telling you to start shaming yourself. It won't magically make you motivated to make a change. Instead, portraying yourself as a weak-minded person convinces you that you're not able to succeed. This is particularly the case if you have a history of failed attempts in the past. If prior to this moment you tried to quit using a specific method and it didn't help, forget about it. As some people say- it's not you, it's me. So let's find something better that actually works for a longer term.

Reasoning

Questions to answer:
What do you get from engaging in that behavior?
Do you experience the constant need to relieve stress?
What problem does it solve?

When you go to a doctor's appointment, they check for symptoms to identify the main cause. If doctors always focused on getting rid of the symptoms, they would keep occurring again and again, and there wouldn't be any actual progress. Similarly, your bad habit is just a symptom, not the main problem. 

If that's a matter of convenience and laziness, you must investigate other ways around it. The best example is taking off make-up before going to bed. The thought of getting up to clean my face with makeup remover and cotton pad made me not want to wear make-up ever again. It was until I tried cleansers and make-up wipes and realized it wasn't about me being lazy, but about my unexplained hate towards make-up removers. Another example is when I made my first attempts to have a more active lifestyle. Now we have a lot to choose from, but back in the days I thought running was the most accessible for me. Needless to say, it was a huge failure that made me feel very bad about myself. Later in life I found sports that I enjoy doing. I didn't even consider some of them as options in the first place, simply because I thought it would end up the same. I still run only when I'm running late.

Some habits are based on willingness to quickly relieve stress. For example, chewing on pens and pencils. By the way, this habit damages teeth, as they're not meant for chewing on such hard objects. In this case you must think of two things- what triggers the stress and how it can be substituted. It can also be that there is no specific trigger, so just focus on the second point. Identifying and avoiding triggers isn't enough for quitting a habit, but it's an essential step. There are some triggers that you can completely avoid, and some are impossible to get rid of. But trust me, if you have less triggering environment overall, it makes your recovery go much smoother.

Finding motivation

Here comes the most important part that's completely on you. This is the reason why a lot of things don't work. One big mistake to avoid is measuring how much motivation you have. You probably heard something like this before: he was very motivated and achieved his goals. Does it sound familiar? Personally, I don't understand the meaning of being very motivated. Think about it for a minute and try to give a good definition. We talk about motivation as if everyone experiences it the same and it can be increased by constantly convincing yourself to do something eventually. In fact, one can fully understand the importance of the change while having no motivation at all. The answer is simple- motivation cannot be created artificially, it can only be found deep within. For a long time I thought that the right motivation is "because it's bad for you", but it never made any significant impact. That's what commercials, friends and family keep repeating. Motivation is both hard and easy to find at the same time, but the search process isn't as confusing as what I just said. It's hard to listen to yourself, but very easy to find the right motivation once you learn how to do it. Find something simple and personal to you. Something that will make you happier than you currently are. When I gained some weight, my motivation was simple- I wanted to fit in my clothes again. Once I lost weight, I continued training and eating healthy, because I wanted to bench more weight and get stronger overall. I wouldn't get where I'm currently at if I only focused on comparing myself to others and scaring myself.

First day

It's easy to plan for the future, simply because you don't have to take any action just yet. Sometimes when I make a schedule for tomorrow I write down way too many things on my "to do" list. The next day I end up with unfinished tasks. That's because one's expectations about the future can't be fully adequate and realistic. Similarly, our New Year's resolutions are based on the idealized projection of the future self as if that is a completely different person. The best advise- start quitting at any moment. Whenever you feel like you're ready. There won't be any pressure of failure on you, so you'll feel more control over the situation. But remember that first day, write down the date, and celebrate every milestone. A day, a month, every month, a year, every half a year- that's what I personally follow.

Overcoming obstacles

What do you like doing? I wouldn't give a proper answer 10 years ago. Some people are passionate about one hobby, and some are like me. They kind of like doing things here and there, but don't focus on something specific. Nonetheless, it's possible to find something that maybe doesn't fully occupy your mind, but at least brings enjoyment. When you make yourself open to new things, it's even easier. Do you know how to make yourself try new things? Stop being afraid of being worse than others, instead focus on doing things your way. I started baking at the age of 13 and slowly moved to other courses and cuisines. But I didn't do it often in the beginning, because it wasn't possible to try new recipes every day at home. Simply because I had to work around what was available in the fridge. Now when I tried to quit another habit, I started cooking new recipes almost every day as if I'm on some cooking show and must show all my talents. I must admit that I went a little too crazy on that and spent a lot of time in the kitchen. We're just 2 people, a cat and a rabbit. The latter two don't even eat human food.

You may ask why I just told you that story. Because you must find what you like. You'll have moments when you start craving your bad habit, but you'll do something better instead- something you're passionate about. If you don't find a substitute for your bad habit, you find yourself in a deep boredom. And boredom isn't something what good stories start with. Don't think you're taking something away while not engaging in your bad habit. See it as a journey to finding your true passion. Start with something simple, and when it doesn't bring enough joy, switch to another activity. You probably have a routine for you bad habit, so plan the new activity in those hours of the day. And most importantly, keep believing that in the end you'll figure things out and succeed. Maybe not this time, maybe some other time. But you definitely will!


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